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Support –Backbone of Relationship
Everything has base and support in Nature. Nature is our best Teacher if we do
learn from it. Support is best element of every relationship. we can say It is
layer of any relation. Generally while speaking
we ask to other ,’Do you have support?’ Relationship hinges on support. Let’s
understand it by one example:
Suppose if you do not get support from your family
members,friends,partner etc in your relationship,
Does it survive for long time? I think you know answer of
said question very well.support is fundamental thing in every relation even
tree increases with the support of land. it means relations cannot survive
without support we can say it is like a key to maintain it.support can be emotional
,economical ,moral etc. support is divine feeling which everyone does feel it.
Relationship is various colors like rainbow.Many
relationships are smashing because of lack of support and many couples, people
failed to recognize their a status of relationships. Some people are rambling from
their main objective of relationships. Relationship has many stages,support is
one of it.relationship becomes strong due to support.realationship attracts
duties not Rights. Rights and duties are co-related with each other.
Do you have the support in your relationships?
Relationships becomes weak in course of time so it needs
to relive or to heal relation to boost to next level .So we have to ask said
question to ourselves because relation becomes weak due to lack of support. where
is trust,there is we can easily assume
support. There is a unwritten law that,
Trust + Support =Healthy
Relationship.
In short Trust and support are two sides of one coin.Support
helps to lift up raltionships.
Emotinal support-
Here are
some Elements of Emotional support.
# Compliment- compliment
your partner in front of other people.Saying positive things about your partner
in presence of relatives,friends or associates is one of the most supportive
things you can do.It will affects your relation positively.
# Touch- It is medium to express love towards your
partner for example holding hands,cuding on couch,hugging etc are simple ways
to share this powerful experience.
# kindness -
If you are disagree with your partner,Disagree with in kind and loving way. Not
to judge or reject you partners ideas or desires without first considering them.If
you have difference opinion as long as express it with kindness.
# Never
Ignore-there is not hurtful than being treated like you don’t exist.In
simple words never ignore your partner.
# Speaking
Tone- Speak with your partner in loving tone. Almost half of
communication is tonal.
In short,There is no reward. There is no what’s in it for
me?” there is only support for someone you care about.
Moral Support-
Parteners trust each other.They support each other in what
in brings each person joy.The basis of relationship is to maintain moral
support and intent to learn moral support each other rather than being intent
on protecting,controlling.It is intent to learn about love and moral support
that leads to being able to take responsibility.There is to convey the thoughts with each other.
Here are
some element of Moral Support-
# Discussion-To
discuss with each other on something interesting topic. It will help to
increase mutual understanding and It will lead to lift up moral support.
# Time
spent- it is common concern in a relationship.while some people enjoy
being together all the time ,some people also enjoy being with their own
friends or pursuing separate interest,and in a relationship they are supported
each-other morally.
# learn
from Conflict- Moral support helps to partners to learn from their
conflict.In other words relationship has
system for learning from their conflicts.Partner has to listen each other’s
points of view.Each partner is growing
through moral support and often through conflict in a relationship.
# Express
Feelings-It is important to share own and honest feeling with each
other.If we see older couple still loving each other,you are seeing feeling and
spark. Two people are connecting with each other after expressing feeling.
# Spark-Intellctual
,physical-often people feel spark at beginning of their
relationship.Spark is maintained by moral support.It is difficult to define
spark in a relationship. There is spark that exist in a relationship.A spark is
not superfacial thing,It is not based on status or looks.Its about the deeper
loving energy that exist between two people.
In the conclusion I hope you might like this article on
Above mentioned topic.By doing or following above ingredients ,you can create
supportive,loving and healthy relationship
See you at next post soon.
Thank you…
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