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Support –Backbone of Relationship

Everything has base and support in Nature. Nature is our best Teacher if we do learn from it. Support is the best element of every relationship. we can say It is a layer of any relation. Generally while speaking  we ask  other, ’Do you have support?’ Relationship hinges on support. Let’s understand it  by one example:

Suppose if you do not get support from your family members, friends, partner etc in your relationship,

Does it survive for a long time? I think you know the answer to a said question very well.support is a fundamental thing in every relation even tree increases with the support of land. it means relations cannot survive without the support we can say it is like a key to maintaining it.support can be emotional, economic, moral etc. support is divine feeling which everyone does feel it.

The relationship is various colors of a rainbow.Many relationships are smashing because of lack of support and many couples, people failed to recognize they're a status of relationships. Some people are rambling from their main objective of relationships. The relationship has many stages, support is one of it.relationship becomes strong due to support.relationship attracts duties, not Rights. Rights and duties are co-related with each other.

Do you have the support in your relationships?

Relationships become weak in course of time so it needs to relive or to heal relation to boost to next level.So we have to ask a said question to ourselves because relation becomes weak due to lack of support. where is trust, there is we can easily assume support. There is an unwritten law that,

Trust + Support =Healthy Relationship.

In short Trust and support are two sides of one coin.Support helps to lift up relationships.

Emotional support-

Here are some Elements of Emotional support.

# Compliment- compliment your partner in front of other people.Saying positive things about your partner in presence of relatives, friends or associates is one of the most supportive things you can do.It will affect your relation positively.

# Touch- It is medium to express love towards your partner, for example, holding hands, cuddling on the couch, hugging etc are simple ways to share this powerful experience.

# kindness - If you disagree with your partner, Disagree within a kind and loving way. Not to judge or reject you partners ideas or desires without first considering them.If you have a different opinion as long as express it with kindness.

# Never Ignore-there is not hurtful than being treated like you don’t exist.In simple words never ignore your partner.

# Speaking Tone- Speak with your partner in a loving tone. Almost half of communication is tonal.

In short, There is no reward. There is no what’s in it for me?” there is only support for someone you care about.

Moral Support-

Partners trust each other.They support each other in what in brings each person joy.The basis of the relationship is to maintain moral support and intent to learn moral support each other rather than being intent on protecting, controlling.It is intended to learn about love and moral support that leads to being able to take responsibility.There is to convey the thoughts with each other.

Here are some element of Moral Support-

# Discussion-To discusses with each other on something interesting topic. It will help to increase mutual understanding and It will lead to lifting up moral support.

# Time spent- it is a common concern in a relationship.while some people enjoy being together all the time, some people also enjoy being with their own friends or pursuing a separate interest, and in a relationship, they are supported each-other morally.

# learn from Conflict- Moral support helps to partners to learn from their conflict.In other words, relationship has a system for learning from their conflicts.Partner has to listen to each other’s points of view.Each partner is growing through moral support and often through conflict in a relationship.

# Express Feelings-It is important to share the own and honest feeling with each other.If we see an older couple still loving each other, you are seeing feeling and spark. Two people are connecting with each other after expressing feeling.

# Spark-Intellectual ,physical-often people feel spark at beginning of their relationship.Spark is maintained by moral support.It is difficult to define spark in a relationship. There is the spark that exists in a relationship.A spark is not a superfacial thing, It is not based on status or looks.It's about the deeper loving energy that exists between two people.

In the conclusion, I hope you might like this article on Above mentioned topic.By doing or following above ingredients , you can create supportive, loving and healthy relationship

See you in next post soon.

Thank you…

The Magic Of Saying three"Yes" To Your Partner...

Hello friends...

 I am back with new interesting topic i.e The Magic Of Saying three"YES" to Your Partner.. Yes ,This is our Todays topic. Is It Strange? Is It Topic to discuss? These some questions may be in your mind,Answer of Said questions are Yes. Let start with that without delay. 

       If someone said "Yes" to you how do you feel? Absolutely no doubt feeling is very good and positive.We are watching many couples that they seems to be a happy in society as well as we are also watching some couples that they seems to be a sad.There are many relationships which are temporary in manner because People uses people for some selfish reasons,purposes. Let it be. The Point is how many couples are saying YES to his/her partner! There should be Trust in their relationship As rightly said that 'Trust is essential in Relationships'.Many people will be agreed with said sentence. In Reality 'Trust is beyond all'

 In this topic will discuss on some points and perspective which are as under.

#Observe your Partner's Feelings:-  The Feelings are vital factor in human life. Everyone acts with various feelings like angry,happy,greedy,sad and many more. The Feelings do work like bridge between two people,between the groups. Humans connects through feelings.Even animals have feelings.This is medium of animal to express their feelings In this regard in any relation feelings are playing essential role .So that observe your partner's feeling this can boost your relation to next level and your relation becomes healthy relation.You have to watch your partner likes and dislikes,What are his/her aims/dreams ,wishesh/desires.Thats it when you respect your partner's feelings your partner will be happy towards you and he/she wont control you.

#Make a list of  common choices :- To create a relation is easy but to maintain relation is a hard task.Make conversation, Make a common liking list of eachother if your habbits or Nature is opposite.Do not feel bad if your Nature is opposite remember Opposite attracts to eachother.This is a chance to live a life differently.Make a list What are your common choices.Do Work upon such lists and see the results.While preparing such lists understand nature of eachother then lead.

#The Power Of Saying 3 YES:-  When your friends,relatives or loved ones said the word "No" to You.How do you feel? yes,you are right you will feel bad.When you said the word "YES" ,you does feel positive at immediately as soon as you said.The Positive energy does start at your thinking.When Your thinking process is positive,It affect automatically in your actions. When we meets people it affects at our personality  60% of  their habbits,natures and many more thats why saying is produced like Man is recognised by his company what he keeps. 
 Saying 3 Yes to your partner is a key to live happily. In this regard This is an implied power that no one is understand that this little thing affects his/her relation at large.The word "Yes" is like magic if you use it wisely in your relationships.

#When to use the word YES :-  we are discussing said subject since some time,now we are knowing the power of saying "YES" but when should we use such power? How to use such power? obvisously these type of questions arised in mind.Here is the process in  this regard which are as under:

a) Conversation - Start conversation with your partner,While conversing with eachother use optimistic words/language as much as possible.If your opinions are an adverse to  eachother then use the power of "YES".You have to take at least three "YES" from your partner while conversing.It is a skill to take at least three "YES".

b) Ask Optimistic Questions- It is a process to take at least three "YES" from your partner.You have to start conversation after that Ask optimistic questions which answers of that questions are "YES". In other words Ask YES type questions.

c) Timing- Once you completes above 2 steps,you will jump towards at this step i.e Timing .You have to start conversation including Yes type questions at a right time. It means use this process either night before sleeping or at morning, At your Private moments.

In This way we are discussing very essential process i.e The Magic Of Saying three"YES" to Your Partner. It does help to you to live with new scenario.If you are not confident at this post you can try it. 
Note- You have to practice for this process. Use this process very carefully and wisely. 

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