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1 Encourage your partner Goals- Many people lose their goal while they are engaging in a relationship. Unfortunately, their partner did not mind or some are dominated to lose his/her goal. It is a harmful thing in a relationship. Staying together is not a relation, encourage your partner to accomplish his/her goal. So Know your partner dream/goal/ ambition and help him/her to accomplish it. Encouragement gives energy to your partner as well as your relation. It moves to next level like your relation will be a healthy relation, increasing respect for each other. The Relationship is a responsibility towards both. It shall be handled with care otherwise it shall come to end.
2 Intimacy – It is consist of 2 types. one is physical intimacy and another is mental intimacy. These both elements have importance in their own sphere. It is key to unlock your bad patch. Physical Intimacy is an essential. It is a form of expression.It is neither sign of complicity but also a way to get security. It is not merely about sexuality. Physical intimacy helps a couple to increase bonds. It helps to maintain self-esteem too. Kissing, hugging is an example of physical intimacy.
Man makes a relation to fulfilling his/her mental need. Mental intimacy strengthens couple’s bonds. Man can share his emotions to another through a relationship. Today we are losing such thing in relationships so divorce cases are increasing day by day. There are 90% relationship hinges on Mental intimacy. Mental intimacy creates very close emotional and effective connection between two people in a relationship. Caressing, sensual words are the example of Mental Intimacy.
3 keep Respect to Each other’s privacy zone – Everyone has right of privacy and in most matters, people enter in another’s private zone which is not good in a relationship. People become personal they are crossed their line unknowingly and many relationships end due to it and it is wonderful people do not understand such thing. While relationships start to identify your partner’s private zone which he/she does not share. Man does not share his private zone to any other person through such person is his family members, wife, girlfriend, boyfriend, husband etc because it is such place on which he/she feels secure and want to spend some time with himself or herself.
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The sense of humor – Relationships has many ups & downs. In a relationship.Man becomes serious and discreet. As a consequence, he loses his ability sense of humor. The sense of humor is the best quality because of it relationships turns into interesting factor. It is ok to laugh at absurdities and ridiculous behavior sometimes. It does not mean that you don’t care. Humour makes things easy, friendly and comfortable in a relationship. Humour is an attracting tool to attract a partner in a new relationship. Humour can be overcome awkwardness or embarrassment that arises during the process of getting know each other. It can make strong bonds between both partners.
5 forgive others and forgive yourself- In a relationship Forgive is a powerful tool because it helps us not to hold a grudge or hate towards your loving one. I remember one though,“If we really want to love we must learn to forgive”. It’s one of the hardest things to do in a relationship is forgiving your partner if they have done something to upset you. It is the best test of your relationship when you are feeling angry or betrayed or disappointed, the idea of forgiving someone can feel a little bit like giving in. Forgive creates a safe space to deepen personal exploration. Research shows that forgiveness is one of the keys to emotional intimacy. The relationship gets stronger when both are willing to forgive each other. In accordance with Ben Greenhalgh,”Forgiveness is a sign that the person who has wronged you means more to you than the wrong they have dealt”. So forgive others and yourself.
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